I am a man and therefore I will be interpreted as either a threat or a simpleton in which I assure you I am not. I wish to remark on you gentleman as you claim yourself as nice guys and you continue to walk the path of destruction by allowing yourself to be used and abuse folling the guidelines of quotes such as "Oh there are more fish in the sea..you are such a NICE GUY that you will find somebody". I assure you there is not no one will fit your ideal woman nor will suit your carnal desires for long without forking over something at a price instead of the currency of love you used wastefully. Marriage is a fear based step. which I can comment on later but I have now ran out room for it.