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  <title>I thought he was a nice guy, funny, the kind who w</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/330</link>
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    <![CDATA[I thought he was a nice guy, funny, the kind who wouldn't look twice at a girl like me. Then we started talking and I found out... he's simultaneously much kinder and less afraid to give offense than I had thought. Hooray for secret crushes that turn into friendships!    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>Confused!

Yea so I havenrsquot hung out with my b</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/304</link>
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    <![CDATA[Confused!

Yea so I havenrsquot hung out with my best friend in a long time. We barely talk because of his girlfriend and it does int bother me much. Well thatrsquos what i thought -____- yesterday he had called me to hang out with him. He said he was gonna spend couple of hours with me. I was excited but tried to limit my excitement due to all the other times hes stood me up. Well i guess i was a bit to excited because i got ready three hours ahead lol. Anyways, we went out for pizza and he had promised me he was gonna take me some place near the water. I got freak en pissed because his definition of ldquonear the waterrdquo was the ugly lake near my house. He knows i hate that place. It kinda hurt me because he drives two hours to his girlfriends house every week and sleeps over but he cant spend time with me .

I feel like im his back up. He only calls me when he needs advise or his girlfriend Isint talking to him. I dont know what the hell to do. I sord of liked him before he started going out with her, but i stopped my feelings. But Im sord of getting worried because those feelings are coming back and im afraid if they grow there might be a situation. Im trying as hard as i can to keep my mouth shut cause i know nothing good is gonna come out when i admit to him my true feelings.
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>When I first met him, he used to do all these swee</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/303</link>
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    <![CDATA[When I first met him, he used to do all these sweet things for me like pay for me or tell me i'm beautiful and such.  These days all he does is act like a total bitch like flipping out cuz I wanna hang out with a girlfriend or just saying mean things to me for no apparent reason. He used to only look at me when we talked but now all he does is check out other girls especially when I'm not around. Now I see his true colors. It was all just to get me into bed. I might just end up cheating on him cuz I can't leave the jerk.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I am a man and therefore I will be interpreted as </title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/302</link>
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    <![CDATA[I am a man and therefore I will be interpreted as either a threat or a simpleton in which I assure you I am not.

I wish to remark on you gentleman as you claim yourself as nice guys and you continue to walk the path of destruction by allowing yourself to be used and abuse folling the guidelines of 'es such as 'Oh there are more fish in the sea..you are such a NICE GUY that you will find somebody'. I assure you there is not no one will fit your ideal woman nor will suit your carnal desires for long without forking over something at a price instead of the currency of love you used wastefully.

Marriage is a fear based step. which I can comment on later but I have now ran out room for it.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I'm just going to tell you straight up if a guy is</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/301</link>
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    <![CDATA[I'm just going to tell you straight up if a guy is being a jerk in any way tell him. Don't put up with that bs.If this guy really wants to make an effort to be with you he'll do just that. If not don't bother with them. I've been through my fair share on women sense I'm a guy yes a guy posting on a womens forum. And the user's will just use the hell out of us. Find a guy who is willing to make the effort to show you how much your worth it. But also has his life to live. Also find a guy who accepts your for your flaws. Don't be ashamed ladies your beautiful in every way. The jerks are just stuck up ass holes. Live your life and you'll find the perfect guy trust me.     ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>It was odd that my niceguy boyfriend didn't call m</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/287</link>
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    <![CDATA[It was odd that my niceguy boyfriend didn't call me on my birthday to arrange to take me out celebrating. I called him in the evening to ask what the problem is and he said he is too busy studying for the summer school finals. I don't want to dissuade good behavior like studying, so I wished him luck. Two in the morning and I answer the my phone, he is slurring drunk and demanding a ride for home from some fraternity party. Nice. I future seems bleak.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>He didn't act like a douche bag, didn't look like </title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/254</link>
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    <![CDATA[He didn't act like a douche bag, didn't look like a douche bag, in fact he was kind of geeky.  I get hit on a lot by really hot guys but lets face it most are douches. I decided to go for this guy because I was hoping he was different.  We have great chemistry in and out of the bedroom.  He genuinely seemed to like me and be a very nice guy.  Now I find out he is hooking up with random girls he meets on the internet or trying to anyway.  Long story and no I did not snoop.  I am convinced there are no nice guys, that even the 'nice guys' are such horrible douches.  Fuck guys, I have great friends, and I can go buy a vibrator.      ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I was dating a girl all through college and really</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/238</link>
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    <![CDATA[I was dating a girl all through college and really loved her. I invited our two families over to my house and I spelled 'will you marry me?' with flowers. When she walked through the door, she immediately cried and went upstairs to the bedroom. She cried four hours straight saying und'this isn't how I wanted to be proposed to.und' 

She never came down stairs to be with the families. We never married. Surprise.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I thought I had a niceguy in my life. Then I had t</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/237</link>
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    <![CDATA[I thought I had a niceguy in my life. Then I had to explain to him that making out with his bestfriend is, in fact, cheating on me. Even if that bestfriend is a male.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I sat next this guy i liked ALOT and there was 2 d</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/230</link>
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    <![CDATA[I sat next this guy i liked ALOT and there was 2 days left of school. He suprised me by leaving. i got his phone  from my friends and i texted him i really liked. He texted back in like a hour and said he liked me as a friend. i never texted him back. For the rest of the week i ate melted chocolate, icecream, and whipped cream. '(    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I thought he was a nice guy, then after a year of </title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/153</link>
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    <![CDATA[I thought he was a nice guy, then after a year of dating, he sends me an email telling me he looked at his summer schedule and he just didn't see where I fit in.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>A week before we were taking a flight to a wedding</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/141</link>
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    <![CDATA[A week before we were taking a flight to a wedding in my family, my boyfriend changes his status on und'facebookund' to und'single.und'  My mother called me to ask me about the change I asked my thought-he-was-my-boyfriend about it and he said und'maybe I should have changed it to 'it's complicated?und'  We both went to my family wedding... akward ending.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>Hi There, 

Hope your week is going well!  I don't</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/106</link>
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    <![CDATA[Hi There, 

Hope your week is going well!  I don't really know a good way to say this, but I don't think its a good idea for us to go out again on Saturday. I think your great,  but there's just something missing on my end and given what I assume we are both looking for I don't think its fair to either of us to continue things if we aren't both into it 110. 

I hope we can keep in touch and be friends. I am sure I will find my way back to Polk street eventually ) 

Have a good weekend. 
    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>My niceguy boyfriend of 6 months and I were lookin</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/93</link>
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    <![CDATA[My niceguy boyfriend of 6 months and I were looking at his friend's album of their recent engagement. These friends are serious jokers and we were laughing a lot. I jokingly asked him to marry me and he said 'YES!' I was joking. He is not. I don't see this ending well. It was the wrong joke to make to a 'niceguy.'      ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>My girlfriend of 6 months and I went on a date las</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/89</link>
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    <![CDATA[My girlfriend of 6 months and I went on a date last weekend. I called later to make sure she got home safely and she told me to check her facebook page. I logged on and nothing looked different, she told me to refresh. She changed her status to 'interested in guys' and single. She broke up with me on the phone via Facebook. Embarrassing. I am a niceguy, I didn't deserve that.     ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I went out with this guy amp there was no chemistr</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/88</link>
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    <![CDATA[I went out with this guy amp there was no chemistry for me.  It was only one date, and so I felt comfortable telling him via the website that I wasn't interested in seeing him again (after he asked me out again via text).  His response 'No worries, I understand, I'm pretty picky also. It's too bad though, I think some great sex might have been just around the corner.'    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>This guy writes me to start -- I haven't seen his </title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/87</link>
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    <![CDATA[This guy writes me to start -- I haven't seen his profile yet, mind you.  I just read his attempt at a virtual come-on line.  Here's how it starts 'Don't let my 'orientation' mislead you into thinking I'm not monogamous (or that I date men---I haven't, I'm just not closed off).'  Um...yeah, I'll just skip even looking at your profile, thanks.    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>I asked my college boyfriend what he wanted for ch</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/81</link>
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    <![CDATA[I asked my college boyfriend what he wanted for christmas and he said 'to be single for the holiday.' I thought he was joking, but he left school and didn't call me at all during the break. When school started again, he acted like all was good and that was really his 'gift.'     ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>i found out the niceguy i have been 'hanging out w</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/71</link>
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    <![CDATA[i found out the niceguy i have been 'hanging out with' was only coming over to my house to get closer to my brother    ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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  <title>One day while driving home from work I realized th</title>
  <link>http://www.niceguys.com/view/Dating/70</link>
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    <![CDATA[One day while driving home from work I realized that my boyfriend is a bad influence on my kids. He spends too much time playing video games, eats pizza for dinner most nights, calls everyone 'gay', drinks too much too often and curses like a middle schooler. Then I thought that I need to seperate them, like children. But really, if he isn't good enough for my kids, why would he be good enough for me. I called him and broke up with him immediately and didn't look back.     ]]>
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  <author>Anonymous</author>
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